Happiness From Your Partner

This is the opinion about happiness.Happiness is the primary need of all of us. All of us want to be happy and avoid pain. The beginning of any relationship also depends upon how happy we are with each other. But we also derive happiness from what we achieve on our own. An engineer is very happy when designs something very well. So is a housewife if she manages to cook something that is loved by every family member. This way people get happiness in many ways. What if we begin depending on our partner to make us happy? Is that possible?

'If you buy me good presents, I feel happy. If you take care of my emotional needs, I am happy. If you show that you love me, I am happy and so on. My happiness essentially depends on how you make me happy. It is your duty to do that. If you are not making me happy, you are erring. You are breaking the relationship. You are running away from your responsibility.' What if somebody takes this attitude?

Such an attitude will surely make your partner very unhappy and will kill the relationship. Happiness is a two way street. Make him/her happy and give him/her a chance to make you happy. Let both of you show care for each other.